2.22.17 Getting to know you

If we really want to get to know someone, we slowly do more and more things with them. The more we do with them, the more their weird stuff surfaces. 

Everybody has weird stuff. It's OK. But in that way, we discover whether they are a defensive blamer, or a generous conciliatory person. We can then decide what direction to go in. 

If we go in too deep with them and then backtrack, there is a probability they will retaliate. 

The more challenged we are in our life, with health or circumstances, the more important it is to explore this, before getting in too deep.