It's such a fine line,
learning to transition gradually from taking care of our grown offspring ... to
loving and caring about them, but gradually instilling a more reciprocal
relationship of greater distance and respect and knowing .
And how odd, that
when we manage to let go of indulging in relationship-skewing worry or
care-taking, or unintended ways of putting ourselves aside in the equation,
purportedly for them , and instead including our selves and preferences , while
keeping a clean cool discrete boundary of low expectation , that they often
begin to respect and experience more interest in getting to know really who we
each are.
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