11.7.15 There is something about the way we wander along in our lives

often growing increasingly thoughtful with ourselves, conciliatory, even, after all those years of flailing and blaming ourselves and spewing back all ill formed accusations , received from others . 
     Somehow, if we want- and I want- we become more and more capable . Of patience. Of empathy. Of living closer to golden rule. 
     Of highlighting honesty and goodness, simply because of what they are ,and the depth of Grace that accompanies them.